When doing right get you wrong!

Well for starters i'm speaking of family , and of course your friends. Please answer these questions? We all may not mind to lend a helping hand to a friend or family member when needed right? Start with your friends , let's say you're a woman with a handful of children , with a husband at war , which makes you a single parent during the tour. You have a very nice friend that has some years on you in age, she has grown children , and a husband. Story , your friend is homeless , and helpless , because of her weight she's lazy , nothing personal. You do all of what you can because you have the transportation to assist in that way. Your friend lives in a next state , and the cost of living is very affordable in yours. To get your friend , and her children out of that car that she has no permit drive , you find her a home to live in, in the state you live. You then travel 300 miles to accomidate your friend , but you have to hurry back home. You have a teenager in highschool ,teenager in jr. high , and a (middle school child ), that should have been in school. Now this is where the story gets complicated. When you arrive in the next state along with your two younger children , you rent a hotel for the day to get some rest , due to the 300mile trip.No rest for you because your middle school age child missed the school bus that morning , oh and the teacher is calling you , like that one child matters. Now as for your so called friend , this fool was not ready , she had to wait for a ride to get to you. She finally arrives after 5hours and her transport which was her son in-law , throws trash bags full of clothes along with your friends grandchildren in the back seat of your five passenger suv. So there, you have no room left for your two children one six and one 13 years in age, but you manage. Who accompanied your friend in your small suv was her tall 15 year old son,her three grandchildren , her then soon to be husband my bad , and her fat ass 22 year old son. Now running down your vehichle , you make your way back down that 300 plus stretch to your state. Now , besides you doing what you felt was right as a friend , trouble awaits you at your door step. During your wait at your friend's home state , you already knew that you had to face some issues , your child missing the school bus , and you were not home to transport him to school. You're in big trouble with your state's dss and military police. Your friend moves into her house with her family , while you're left alone to deal with laws you didn't know about within the military family because you're new to the state as well. With your family and housing being jeapordized , there's still a God , and all is well. Now as for your friend , still lazy , needing help , and her grown family members never sacraficed a 5 minute walk to get a job. Now you stay away because you're feeling regretful. You always seemed to help this friend only to have your luck go sour. You have plenty reasons to keep your distance , because after a few months , your so called friend moved back to her home state , to continue her homelessness. You've always wondered why no one helps this friend out. Then the really bad part about this situation is she never appreciated your help , and never sincerely meant to say thank you ,she feels friends are supposed to be more that what they should be (Don't Think So). You effortlessly tried to get away from this hard luck clown that you pray about it and you thank God for opening your eyes. Some of us are very hard headed , and it's bad that when you help someone, your help is worth nothing , and you're still considered the bad guy. As far as babysitting favors,my time costs , and is very much worth the tick and cash. I'm charging by the minute for drama! Can You Relate?